Home Sets: Changing Your Thoughts
We all know to not act on intrusive thoughts...but we do it all the time anyway. Out home sets are the first batch of lessons we learned, starting from all...
Speak Clearly – No, Seriously, Speak Clearly
To truly be understood, you need to speak clearly. I mentioned it very briefly earlier this week, but let’s go a little deeper into this idea that romance should be...
Love And Like: Have Both For Your Partner
You should absolutely love your partner - but you also need to like your partner. This concept of love versus like is used most often in the context of relationships...
Affection: You Can’t Decide Someone Else’s
How wonderful would it be if we could control all of our partner’s decisions? Answer: not wonderful at all. It would be terrible. Your partner is a completely different person...
Covert Contracts: When Nice Becomes Conniving
Our actions deeply affect others, you know? We live in a world surrounded by others, and we’re always doing things for them whether intentionally or not. When you do something...
The Bounty Of Green Flags
Green flags, best flags. I just spoke about how you need to end bad relationships instead of staying in complacency, but RenMil is about positivity so let’s talk about a...
The Damage Of A Bad Relationship
Bad relationships will destroy you. I talk a lot about how to be happier here on RenMil, finding out your wants and expectations, creating a life with a partner by...
On Laziness: People Aren’t
Let’s talk laziness. First of all, we really need to define what “laziness” even is. This is when you choose to do something other than what you should be doing,...
When Does Effort Matter? (Always)
We’re not all literally created equal. This sounds like it flies in the face of my earlier article that we’re all equal, doesn’t it? That’s the thing with words -...
Throw Your Partner Under The Bus…Together
One of the best things about having a partner is that now you have twice the amount of excuses to get out of things. Let’s be honest here - you...