Put On Your Listening Ears

We all learned how to listen when we were very young…and then proceeded to promptly forget how. Something as simple as “listening” actually comes in two parts: the literal hearing...

You Do You: The Importance Of Your Self

If you’re not being yourself in your relationship, then you might as well not even be in the relationship. Look, the purpose of a relationship is to have a partner...

Make Your Own Choices Without Influence

How do you stop letting someone influence you? I talked earlier this week about how important it is to not let your support network run your relationship. But it’s always...

4 Steps To Learn How To Fight Fair

Divorces can happen over nail clippings. Finger or toe? It doesn’t matter. People will say that the divorce didn’t happen because of such a little thing, that the relationship had...

The Art Of Fighting Fair

A relationship is worth nothing if it's never been tested. I'm not saying it's worthless. Or it might be - the point is you don’t know because it’s never been...

Home Sets: The Tapestry Of You

We’re all brainwashed from birth. Maybe “indoctrinated” or even just “trained” might be a better word, but I’ve made my choice. I’m going to share a pet theory of mine...

A Conversation About Bread: A Man’s Worth

Men have more to offer than just money. I generally try to stay away from such cut-and-paste gendered, heteronormative situations here on RenMil, because it’s the 21st century and most...
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