Put On Your Listening Ears
We all learned how to listen when we were very young…and then proceeded to promptly forget how. Something as simple as “listening” actually comes in two parts: the literal hearing...
The Lifelong Journey Of Finding Yourself
To be yourself, you need to first find yourself. “Self” is a complex topic and an entire field of study, but let me try to distill it into something simple....
You Do You: The Importance Of Your Self
If you’re not being yourself in your relationship, then you might as well not even be in the relationship. Look, the purpose of a relationship is to have a partner...
Make Your Own Choices Without Influence
How do you stop letting someone influence you? I talked earlier this week about how important it is to not let your support network run your relationship. But it’s always...
How Many People Are In Your Relationship?
How many people are in your relationship? It doesn’t matter if it’s 2 or 20, but the odds are that the number is higher than you think. Let me tell...
4 Steps To Learn How To Fight Fair
Divorces can happen over nail clippings. Finger or toe? It doesn’t matter. People will say that the divorce didn’t happen because of such a little thing, that the relationship had...
The Art Of Fighting Fair
A relationship is worth nothing if it's never been tested. I'm not saying it's worthless. Or it might be - the point is you don’t know because it’s never been...
Home Sets: Social Conditioning For Everyone
Let’s talk about genders in regards to home sets. If you’ve forgotten my theory of home sets - this is the collection of things we learned when we were very...
Home Sets: The Tapestry Of You
We’re all brainwashed from birth. Maybe “indoctrinated” or even just “trained” might be a better word, but I’ve made my choice. I’m going to share a pet theory of mine...
A Conversation About Bread: A Man’s Worth
Men have more to offer than just money. I generally try to stay away from such cut-and-paste gendered, heteronormative situations here on RenMil, because it’s the 21st century and most...