When Does Effort Matter? (Always)
We’re not all literally created equal. This sounds like it flies in the face of my earlier article that we’re all equal, doesn’t it? That’s the thing with words -...
Throw Your Partner Under The Bus…Together
One of the best things about having a partner is that now you have twice the amount of excuses to get out of things. Let’s be honest here - you...
Take Ownership Of Your Relationships
When your partner develops relationships with other people in your life, you need to be aware that they could develop relationships independent of you. Not saying this is something you...
You Need To Learn Better Examples
You need to learn better examples. That’s right, this article is going to start right at the jugular- you need to learn better examples. Think about a serious and daunting...
When You Don’t Say Everything
We all want harmony, but muting yourself isn’t the answer. I’ve already talked at great length about how important it is to have arguments and fights in relationships, but being...
The Challenges Of Your Super Adult
Super adulting, a gift that keeps on giving. Super adults are adults who behave as though there's a hierarchy when there isn't one, as though they're more of an adult...
The Phenomenon of Super Adulting
Super adults: the only thing super about them is their ego. Think about when you were a child - because you were still growing, learning both social and human rules,...
Home Sets: Ask The Question Of Why
Sometimes when we do things, we don’t even know why. I talk about how important it is to learn what your partner is doing rather than assuming they’re doing nothing...
Talk With More Than Words
If you think you’ve been communicating with only your words, you’re doing it wrong. I talk a lot about the importance of communication - a lot - but what do...
Changing Habits: Do It Together
Did you know that you can help your partner listen better? I feel like I should start this article with, "One simple trick to get your partner listening better!" But...